Dessie’s Coaching Corner

June, 2003

 

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In This Issue:

·        Heart Blossoms

·        Horse Trivia

·        What’s New?

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 Heart Blossoms

A couple of months ago a friend sent me a clipping from her local newspaper.  It talked about a place called SprirtHorse.   This is a place where kids of all ages can go and ride horses.  The unique thing about this magical place is that they only serve special needs kids.   This sparked my interest as I had volunteered at a similar place in Kansas and delighted in seeing the kids make amazing progress as they worked with horses.

 

The next day I called the Director of the program to inquire if they needed volunteers.  He said, “Yes”.   So, I paid a visit.  While there, I met a Mom who has three special needs kids.  The Director said I could be very helpful by coming in while these three children took their lessons.  This way, I could supervise two children while their Mom watched the third child take his/her lesson.  I jumped at this opportunity.

 

The following week I showed up to help out.  Abby, who is five, was not too keen on my assistance.  At one point she pushed me and said, “No!”  I persisted in my efforts to entertain her while her sibling took his lesson.  We talked, collected leaves and I pushed her in a swing.  I marveled at how she would examine the tiniest detail in the sand and on the leaves.  When I pushed her in the swing, she would gaze up into the trees and get a huge smile on her face.  It was delightful to watch this beautiful child be so fully in the present moment.   

 

Soon our time together was up.  Abby was in her mother’s arms as we said, “Goodbyes.”    You can imagine my surprise when she put her arms out to me for a hug!  We hugged and she was off with her Mom.  As I watched them walk away my heart blossomed in full.  I felt truly blessed to have the opportunity to spend time with this special little girl.  She modeled so beautifully the delight we can experience when we fully enjoy every moment.

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Horse Trivia

Some people think it is cute when a horse rubs on them.  They see it as a sign of affection.  The truth is that the horse is trying to establish him/herself higher than you in the pecking order.  I do not allow my horses to rub on me.  Of course I rub on them.  It is nice to be the Boss Mare!

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What’s New?

Coach Ingrid and I will offer Crafting Your Environment For Success on Thursday, June 19th at 8:00 PM Central Time. We invite you to join us for this one-hour class.  We will meet on a telephone bridge line.  We will be sharing tips on how to take really good care of you!  The fee is $19.95 per class.  Just e-mail: CoachDessie@earthlink.net and I’ll get you signed up!

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If you or someone you know wants to work with An Executive Coach to:

  1. Balance stressful work with personal needs and self-care.
  2. Create time, space and privacy.
  3. Eliminate energy-draining situations and relationships.
  4. Focus on “what’s next?’ once goals are met.

I can help!  Let my good sense, corporate experience, education and formal training in Executive Coaching work for you!  E-mail: CoachDessie@earthlink.net

 Happy trails to you!   Dessie